Monday, March 29, 2010

No, I'm not getting married, but thank you for telling me how I should plan my wedding...

So, I happen to know a few people who are getting married within the next year. And apparently this means that I must be getting married soon as well. This past weekend, the questions varied from the uncomfortable, "So, have you and Andrew talked about getting married?" to the downright presumptuous, "When you and Andrew get married, you can't wear heels. Well, not high heels at least."

What is it with you people??? I'm 22 years old. Yes, we've been dating for 3 and a half years. So what? What's the big freaking rush? I'm certainly not looking to start a family any time soon... so what gives? Give me some fucking space. Andrew and I are very happy in our relationship. When/if we decide to get married, we'll let you know. Until then, assume it's not happening any time soon and stop asking/advising me about it. Thanks.